Feminism and femininity have always been two concepts that have been viewed as being at odds with each other. Feminism, which is centered around advocating for the equality of women in all aspects of life, has often been seen as a rejection of traditional feminine qualities and roles. Femininity, on the other hand, has been associated with outdated gender stereotypes that restrict women’s abilities to break free from traditional gender roles.

But, in reality, these two concepts are not mutually exclusive, and in fact, they can work hand in hand to create a powerful, multifaceted definition of womanhood.

Feminism has long been a movement that sought to break down gender stereotypes and traditional gender roles that have limited women’s opportunities, ambitions, and rights. This often meant rejecting the traditional markers of femininity, such as wearing makeup, dressing in frilly dresses, and adhering to the notion that women’s primary role was to be a caregiver.

However, in the 21st century, feminists’ perspectives are changing, and more and more people are embracing the idea that just because someone is a feminist does not mean that they have to give up their feminine qualities or embrace traditionally masculine aspects of their personality to fit in with the movement.

This is where femininity comes in. Femininity is not a rigid set of traits or behaviors; it is a fluid and ever-changing set of qualities that are culturally and historically situated. Women can reclaim certain aspects of femininity by redefining them within the context of feminist ideals.

For example, the idea of wearing makeup or dressing up doesn’t have to be an act of submission to societal expectations of women’s beauty; it can be an act of self-expression and creativity. Rather than feeling as though they are conforming to society’s demands of how women should look, women can wear whatever they want and align it with their ideas of personal expression.

Additionally, women can redefine caretaking or nurturing as feminist acts. Caring for others can be seen as powerful and transformative when it is done from a place of agency. For instance, empowering women to look after each other, to support each other emotionally and physically. Women who support other women and uplift them in society not only help themselves but also help break down the barriers that hold women down.

To conclude, femininity, and feminism, doesn’t have to be a restrictive binary concept. Both can be celebrated in concert with each other to create a multifaceted, diverse, and inclusive definition of womanhood. Women who want to embrace their femininity should not have to feel like they are not true feminists, and females who love feminism don’t have to feel like they have to give up parts of their femininity to pursue equality. Let’s continue to embrace and celebrate the unique qualities that make up the many definitions of womanhood.

By Kate