Now let us pretend your in a date for about 3 years and it has gone fairly well. All of a sudden an incident comes up when someone cheats on you during your relationship. Most often a relationship can be saved even when there is infidelity. But it is more difficult to save marriages that are falling apart when the wife has become involved with another man then the other way around. Women rarely have a purely sexual fling, despite what you may have gathered from watching too much television or reading romance novels.
All you have to do when this happens is take some time to calm down and review the situation. When it appears that your girlfriend or boyfriend really does not care about what they have done, its time to move on. A lot of people have very tough times recovering from this, especially in long relationships. If your girlfriend or boyfriend does have a good apology. You would want to listen to them and make them do something for you to be interested in what their saying. You can try to have them doing something expensive or something small worth a lot of value.
This most important thing is that you you take the time to review if that person is really worth giving a second chance too. If they are make them do something special and have them treat in a better way. I encourage you to give people a second in relationships because there are a lot of people who are messing up and were all human. When it really comes down to it consider everything you have gone through and how good the relationship was, before making the final decision.
