Relationship breakups are as common as the common cold. True. You are not alone. Feel privileged to know that now you have joined the relationship breakup group ( note I like to add humor, why? Eases the pain, I hope). But seriously let us go easy on ourselves here, okay. Did you ever notice in life that when something is broke there is usually a solution to repairing the dilemma. So do you miss your ex. This is a good thing. It means you still care or love that person. Nothing wrong with this at all.
How to survive a breakup, this is easy, accept that fact that you have separated. For the time being. Ask yourself, do you want your ex back? If no is the answer, get off this blog and find another significant other. If you want your ex back, hope is in your time frame. Now, you want your ex back, go back and think of all the good times. Eating cotton candy at the Fair together, having a glass of wine together, seeing a movie and laughing together etc…
You want to restore the good times. What caused the breakup? Were you picking your nose and you got caught? Did you leave the toilet seat up? Come on, what was it? Remember when you use to communicate at the beginning of the relationship, the laughing, the kidding around, the harmless horseplay. The question you are asking yourself is, I want my ex back. I want to save my relationship.
Take it easy okay, it is not over until the cop shows up at your door. JUST KIDDING! Don’t become a stalker. Just know good times can be here again.
