Is it still possible to get your ex girlfriend back even if she’s dating someone else? If you’ve gone through a breakup and lost the girl of your dreams to another man, how do you get her back without coming across as a jealous jerk and making yourself look ten times worse in the process? Winning her back after she’s started to date someone else will require some delicate tactics most men simply aren’t good at.
This article will help you understand the dynamics of a rebound relationship and will give you insights on winning your ex back from another man. By reading to the end, you’ll have a much clearer picture of exactly what you need to do.
First, let’s look at how most men approach this situation. When a man suddenly sees his girl with another man after a breakup, his first reaction is almost always jealousy. It’s a natural reaction when you see a girl you love in the arms of another man, but failure to control this jealousy can ruin every last chance you have to get her back. Relax and stay under control.
If you don’t relax and stay under control, then you will act in ways that will confirm to your girlfriend that breaking up was the right thing to do. You’ll end up trying to start a fight with her and/or the other man. You’ll end up calling her or texting her mean and nasty messages that call her a slut, whore, or worse.
The polar opposite of getting jealous that will also make you look worse in your ex girlfriend’s eyes is to start begging and pleading with her to take you back. You might be tempted to tell her how the other guy isn’t right for her and you might try to step in by telling her how much you love her and miss her. This will only make you look weak, desperate, and needy. She’ll cling to the other man harder and harder.
These actions will completely ruin any chance you have of winning your ex back. They all portray you as a man no woman will want to be with.
A much better alternative is to accept the breakup and not interfere with her relationship with someone else. Be patient and let it run its course. Be genuinely happy for her and tell her you hope he takes really good care of her because she shouldn’t settle for anything less. Then, simply back away and stay out of it.
By understanding the dynamics of a rebound relationship, you’ll realize it’s very unlikely this is the man she’ll end up with. More than likely it’s her way of dealing with the heartache of breaking up with you. She’s likely lonely and it just makes her feel good to be wanted again even though he’s probably not at all the type of guy she truly wants.
If you give it time and don’t do anything to make matters worse for yourself, then more often than not, you’ll get your chance to get back together.
