If you have ever wondered why some guys seem to have all the girls chasing after them and you don’t, then you might want to read on, because dating experts dating experts Rob Judge and Bobby Rio have released the secrets of what they call the Scrambler technique, which they say can greatly improve a man’s chances of dating beautiful women. Here’s how the Scrambler technique makes use of what is called the chase reflex and how it might be able to help men become more successful at dating women.

Rob Judge and Bobby Rio believe that men who are successful at dating women do what they do naturally and they don’t even realize they are doing it. They are using the chase reflex, even though they don’t know it, to its full advantage, and dating skills really just come down to effective communication. Here are the four main areas that Scrambler technique focuses on.

Creating a feeling of uncertainty

The first technique to learn is how to create a bit of mystery about you. Women, it seems, like a bit of a challenge so don’t give everything away about yourself the first time you meet a girl, and then she’ll want to meet with you again so that she can find out more about you.

Show the power

As soon as you get a chance, you should show your strength of character and take control of the situation with a woman. By showing her that you are able to take charge and take the lead, you will be going a long way towards gaining a woman’s respect. If you allow a woman to take the lead in everything, you will quickly lose that woman’s respect.

Don’t look for validation

According to Rob Judge and Bobby Rio, this is one of the areas where a lot of men go wrong. You shouldn’t look to gain validation from a woman, because that will make you appear to be needy. What the dating gurus say that you should be doing is trying to make her become the one that is looking for validation. This will help to keep her interested in you and, maybe, even start to make her chase you.

Build the anticipation

The final part of the Scrambler technique deals with building the anticipation, which is done by developing further on the points mentioned above. That means building on the interest a woman has in you to the point where you can confidently take things to the next level, without blowing your chances!

There is no doubt that some people do just seem to have the knack of dating and it can’t all be down to looks or money. Perhaps you can learn to be better at attracting at women, just as you can learn how to get better at most things. If that is true, then a dating and relationship course would certainly beneficial for some people. What is for sure is that anything like this will need a lot of effort on the part of the student. There certainly is no magic potion that will make a man instantly attractive to women, whatever the men’s body spray manufacturers would like to have us believe.

Source by Neil Savin