If your mind is spinning and you’re saying “I’m still in love with my ex” then rest assured you’re not the only one in this boat. There are hundreds of thousands of people who find themselves in this position after a breakup of a long term relationship marriage. They cannot believe what has happened and hold out hope that something can bring it all together, back how it used to be. I know that things are bleak right now, and you might think there is no hope, but in reality there is hope for you.
So you’re saying “I’m still in love with my ex” and you might be wishing that things could be how they were before. But let’s pretend that you could turn back time. Would you get the same results or would things be different?
You need to really look closely at the mistakes that were made, why they happened, and what you learned from them. To get your ex back, you will have to start again at zero to win over their love. If you’re still in love with your ex, you’ll have to bring that love to a level higher than before.
First try to be a friend again. Remember we want to take things s-l-o-w at this stage. If you’re trying to jump right back into things, your ex might recoil at the idea. Don’t push. Don’t be over aggressive. If you’re meant to be together, you will.
Next you want to make sure you’re in a good ‘headspace’. You don’t want to come across to your ex as a miserable, depressed, empty shell of who you were. It’s unattractive, as harsh as that may sound. But just think-would you like to be with someone who was such a downer? Probably not. Most of us are looking for happiness, someone to lift us up and understand us. You will instead be an encouraging friend with your own life, but who still has feelings for your ex.
If you’re still in love with your ex you owe it to yourself right now to continue investigating how to get your ex back as soon as possible.
