If you are a mature woman you might be thinking of finding some fun by having a friend with benefits. This is a fantastic idea if you are looking for something new and exciting that you haven’t tried before. Maybe you are bored by all of the men your own age and you are looking for a someone who is fresh, fun and energetic. Friends with benefits dating might be exactly what you need to get your fire started.
If you are ready to embrace this new frontier then let’s get this party started. You too can score your own friend with benefits and start a relationship that is new, fresh and innovative. We have gathered eight tips to get you started, to ensure that as a mature woman you find your very own friend with benefits and keep him keen!
1. The first step to finding a friend with benefits as a mature woman is to embrace yourself and be proud of who you are. Be proud of the fact you have life experiences behind you and that you have a mature attitude to life. These are some of the qualities that men are attracted to.
2. Be open about the possibility of dating a younger man (or two?). Think to yourself about the age that you’d like him to be. What is too young? What is just right? Decide why you want to be dating a younger man and be honest with yourself about the aspects of someone that you are looking for. Is it just for the sex, or are you ready for a steady friend with benefits relationship. If you are upfront with yourself and the other person first, then you will have more success in the long term.
3. Start to hang out in the places that single men do, whether it’s a bar, singles event, sport-networking events, work-related industry functions or online dating sites. Be prepared to change your habits, go to new places and find new interests. Start hanging in different locations, and be open to talking to many different people.
4. Let your friends know that you are now looking for a casual relationship rather than a full-blown committed relationship for the time being at least and you’ll be surprised that so many of them will be supportive of your choice. They may know the perfect man to introduce you to, but if you don’t tell them about your preferences they may not think of this match.
5. Pick up some new interests and try new things. If you start hanging with different crowds then you can have a lot of success in meeting new people. Consider trying a new sport with a mixed gender team. You could pick up an art class or join a community college. Join a gym or join a club. Meet new people but be certain to join places that already have attracted a male crowd.
6. Join an online dating site and be upfront on your profile about what you want. If you want a relationship with a younger man for example, then say that this is what you are interested in. Make it clear that you are a mature woman who is interested in friend with benefits dating and you will be likely to have success.
7. Join in on chat sites. These are perfect if you want to get dirty and start talking about sex with men and feel safe and anonymous at the same time. You will find that the people in these sites are very open to talking about sex and are willing to flirt online without it necessarily going to the next stage.
8. Stay positive and be proud that at least for now, you’re interested in more casual, friend with benefits dating.
